Saturday, April 28, 2012

Imagine you are on a Muslim Matrimonials for the first time. You create your profile with sincere intention, upload a few profile pictures and begin to search around to see the profiles. A few minutes later you receive a scam e-mail from what looks like a very sincere user; a tad bit leery you decide not to continue to contact them, yet they see you online and invite you to chat.
You try to ignore that chat button gleaming in the middle of your screen, you click ignore and try to see if there are any interesting profiles. You see model type profiles where it seems too good to be true. Its hard to know if they are for real. You suspect they are, thinking that they are for real. You contact a few after several minutes of active searching and hope they too will contact you back. They never do. A little bit hurt you try again to contact a few profiles that seem interesting to you. Of the ten or so profiles you see one or two look at your profile.
Again you do this day after day and it gets to be a feeling that maybe you are not as desirable as you once thought you may be. You begin to doubt and wonder why so few reply back. The few that do reply back are looking for one thing: sex. You complain to admin but your voice goes unheard and you wonder if other have been bothered by this profile.

Looking for a spouse online is not fun. If you ever been in this type of scene, then you know the all too familiar scene on many Muslim Matrimonials. Often Muslim Matrimonials are run and operated by non-Muslims who have no clue as to the word, "dating" is even haram. They allow all sorts of characters in, seldom screening profiles. Allowing obvious scam profiles in by the dozen. Administrators first duty is to the call of money and not the happiness of the members.

Did you ever have high hopes for someone to marry you and they were playing games with you? Ever meet someone in person leaving you to cry on the drive back home? Ever feel used? Ever been asked if you will marry for them to obtain a Green Card? Ever wish you could get married but felt that it was a hopeless effort you were striving for?

IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY!

Look I am a Muslimah and I know what you went through because I have been there done that. I listen to what my members have to say. Just one tiny suspect from a sister who has been divorced and seeking marriage is enough to boot out a profile for good. Sisters should have an option to seek help from Imams for the intention of marriage and we have three USA Imams and One Ph.d Muslim Relationship coach and Marriage Counselor online.

We do not have fake profile at all. We do have all real profiles seeking for intention of marriage (few are  Muslim store  owners looking to gain you as a loyal customer). We use your e-mail as a guage to see whose e-mail bounces back and we delete their profile from our database so you can be assured to some degree that you can contact all members to the best of our ability. We feel that if we cannot contact them how can you?

We realize we have yet to add many many profile in all age groups but we are actively seeking 5-7 days a week new profiles.

We hope that with confidence you can be apart of our little corner of the world and feel right at home because we have you in mind.

We are 100% Free for all, but we do reserve the right to screen profiles.

http://www.habibimatrimonials.com 

Jazak Allah Khair

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